Alumna. Unfaithful. Striving to become a woman of integrity. Together, we can find light in the darkness of infidelity. Christine I made it my goal to “break” and feminize my straight muscular professional husband Todd, and I did! Took me over a year but we now have a relationship I control sexually, and he’s SO turned on do8mg everything I ask! Alumnus, Unfaithful. Providing hope, encouragement and infidelity-specific insight to anyone in recovery from betrayal. Songs For the Soul We have an excellent harness that she wears as well as a variety of anal plugs used to train my ass. Quite frankly she has trained me into a anal slut for her desires. This was not done overnight. There has been a gradual increase in size and frequency. My training has included hours of BBC and tgirl anal sex videos. I now take a large

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She bought a T-shirt that said something about it not being easy being a ***** but somebody has to do it, and wore it out shopping. I suggested it was a bit much, and she said she would wear another one she got, around the neighborhood, which said “No is not my safe word!” unless I punished her. For us it has been a journey that has taken years to get to where we are today. We have always been sexually adventurous in the bedroom and have incorporated light toy and fantasy play since we were married twenty years ago. We have touched on many fantasies including group play and bisexuality for me, the male half. Mostly vanilla with some kink but overall very satisfying for both of us. I therefore want my husband in the shortest, most girly pink skirts possible or the sexiest feminine revealing lingerie or naked for me to play about with. I adore doing humiliating sexual acts on her. I have access to anything. Anything I can think of that gives me pleasure is in scope. My wife is not as fitness focused as I am, but she is as tall as me 5’9 and some 6 years younger and used to be a mistress ( that is how I met her.) She has pale skin, has a sharp raven haired bob cut, rose bud shaped lips and a button nose, and the appearance of butter would not melt my mouth.

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If you are a man and struggling with these issues please know that you are not alone and that this has nothing at all to do with you or your sexuality. This is not the woman you married. Some people liken it to an alien that had taken over the person involved with the affair. They will do the craziest, hurtful, unhealthy things while in the grips of the powerful addiction. Rather than nag him, over and over, to start the grill. And then telling him that he never times the meat cooking correctly, I asked myself, What’s the worst that could happen? Well, the meat won’t be done until after the rest of the dinner. We might be really hungry by the time dinner starts. With 2 toddlers and a baby, I’m not always able to do to all of this, but I can make a point to stop whatever we’re doing when the husband gets home, get up from my seat, and physically meet him at the door with a smile and a big kiss. Sometimes, I’m nursing so I don’t stand up but I let the kids greet him at the door, and I give him a big smile and hello. One day, I thought ahead enough to get him an ice water in his favorite blue Solo cup, and had one of the boys walk it out to him at the car. Groundbreaking? No. But it made him feel special and know that we anticipated his arrival home from work. Was he a better lover? Was he better endowed? Am I weak or too feminine? Why did she do ......with him that she never did with me? Maybe if I was a better lover she wouldn’t have cheated. How could she not have used a condom?

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Then I get the call I know is coming – I can hear that the TV is paused, then my wife whispering then hysterical laughter from all the women. I make certain to hold her and tell her how wonderful she is, after sex. Cuddling and kissing long after orgasms seems to work well. You want to know exactly what is and is not on the table because what works for someone may be highly specific. "Perhaps you like the words 'slut,' and 'whore' but don't like being called a 'bitch,'" Zane says. "You need to communicate that to your partner." She tells the girls that there is a saying among certain women of Africa that the best footstool is a man’s face.Figure out your hard-nos (i.e. lines that must never, ever be crossed which can include physical, emotional, mental, and verbal boundaries). Alumnus. Unfaithful. Encouraging those walking the road of addiction recovery by sharing his own journey of healing and restoration. Jen Yes, Mistress” I reply, stand up and curtsey. I obey You, and go to fetch them. “Which paddle Mistress? The bigger heavier one or the lighter more flexible one?”

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Got a question about sex that you're too embarrassed to ask? In the online sex misinformation crisis, getting accurate and reliable answers about sex is more difficult than ever before. Mashable is here to answer all your burning sex questions — from the weird and wonderful, to the graphic and gory. Think of us as your sexy agony aunts. Ironically, being humiliated during sex can actually be used to deepen your bond with your partner. "You're very vulnerable when being humiliated," Zane says. To engage in such a highly emotive form of play suggests a relationship that is deeply steeped in trust. Safety and consent are key to safe play.

Newbies who are starting out should take it slow and not dive in head-first. Things can go awfully wrong if the couple aren’t sure they would like it. Harry, 55, banker, London Humiliation play looks different for everyone. "Humiliation-play is based on your own perceptions and experiences," Philips says. You want to be clear on what you want and how you want it, so that everyone has the opportunity to play in a way that feels safe and pleasurable for them. 3 expert-approved tips for getting started. We began some fantasy play about adding additional people to our play time. During this time my wife began menopause. As is the case with a small percentage of women she entered a stage of hyper sexuality. While she was always a very sexual person she was even greatly more so now. We began quite innocently enough to talk about finally making some of our fantasies reality. I was basically on board to her desires letting her lead the way with input and suggestions when it deemed fit. Often, humiliation play is a way to let go of control, when your real life demands otherwise. "This is why usually very high-level CEOs or dominant people in their normal life may love being called unworthy and walking like a dog on a leash at night," Chiaramonte says. "It’s relaxing, it’s taboo, and it’s hot to experiment in the shadow of humanity." I think my experience in an FLR is pretty tame compared to the other posts but here goes: my wife loves to show all her gym friends how she can do anything she wants and I’ll obey.

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I once read that the one who has an affair is often not GIVING what they need to in their marriage. It doesn't mean your wife wasn't GETTING what she needed from you, at least not initially. I know, it seems like irony. The things that make us squirm in humiliation…that public type of humiliation or even the 1-to-1 type, is when we have to say the words that broadcast how submissive we are…. to have to broadcast that out loud…or in writing… to others about what sissies we are… how pathetic we can be without our Goddesses…and how we worship our Mistresses… or to admit we love wearing feminine clothes…overtly…or under our business clothes…with that fear of being detected. Dom/Sub dynamics can play out in a vast number of ways, and, although it isn't entirely sexy to do, first and foremost you both need to sit down and hash out the exact boundaries she wants to explore. The only way you'll know for certain whether or not she is taking something the wrong way will be decisively drawing boundaries that you both need to adhere to.

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Alumna, navigating recovery from both sides of infidelity. Bringing hope to those enduring their darkest moments. Stephanie (New!) As an admitted control-freak, type-A personality, this has been a huge change for me. But I simply go into each day, asking myself how I can best help my husband. And how I can show him my respect. And love.