It would be more sensible to set very short time to unlock yourself for cleaning and for emergencies.

They probably know more about it than you do, and they will also probably know all about the different chastity device options. But I kept going back to the solution that a chastity lock promised: control of my orgasms by someone else.It all started 12 months ago when his urge for fulfilling his chastity belt fantasy become all too real.

With that being said the key holder can require their sub to be restrained during all wellness checks.

I’ve often wondered why some chastity device manufacturer or retailer hasn’t launched a simple, inexpensive remote chastity keyholder service. One reason is that having a keyholder is the only way to experience the control aspect of chastity that so many of us crave.

So, while I’ve never begrudged paying a professional for her services, not every single chaste male can afford to pay for professional keyholding. The disadvantage is you must pay them to enforce your chastity, and in some cases, they will insist upon making all the rules without any concern for what you may want in your chastity experience. In both cases, you just need to do a good job of explaining to them your interest in chastity and what you want them to do. Whatever the relationship type, employing a male chastity device sends a clear message: He's on lockdown, and she holds the key.The recent explosive growth of interest in chastity among men has created a cottage-like industry to address the increased demand for chastity keyholders. The phrase male chastity probably spooks some men and excites others (whether they are willing to admit it or not). She also made it clear that her husband did not approve and that my husband would have to respect his feelings and live with the outcome. I suppose this makes sense since I’ve seen many surveys that say women are more likely to use sex toys than men. In our prototype keys are locked in a stainless steel tube and only the Keyholder can grant access using an app.

Can’t a guy just self-lock or use one of the many virtual chastity device keyholders you can easily find on the web?

The act of Keyholding is by its very nature is dominant, so Femdoms or dominatrixes may use chastity as part of their D/s relationship. It is ok to use the device for very short remote play for a few hours but not feasible for long term. I would not tell him in advance but he would learn the identity of his key holder when he saw the key. By using the Web site, you confirm that you have read, understood, and agreed to be bound by the Terms and Conditions.