For women, boob sex can be just as sexy and hot...that is, however, if being in a more submissive position excites you. "It puts you in that 'fantasy partner' porno position [where] you're kind of in this hot submissive, 'sex toy' role and that can be a turn-on," Engle explains. Be aware that breast sensitivity can change throughout the month. There will probably be certain points during the menstrual cycle where they feel much more sensitive than usual. There may even be times when they are too sensitive for any sort of breast play. Don’t be surprised if your partner needs different things from you at different times. Fantasies come in many different intensities. Some are so compelling that you’ve just got to act on Read more Bring in the toys We’re all unique when it comes to how we like our bodies to be touched, but there are few sexual acts more universally despised than the breast honk. I have never met anyone who enjoyed having their breasts squeezed this way (especially not as sexual initiation). Please don’t treat your partner’s breasts like old-fashioned horns.

Silicone lube is also compatible with condoms, which is a major win if you're enjoying some titty time right before your man enters you down under and you need protection. Or, hey, he might even be wearing a condom for just the boob sex, which isn't actually that bad of an idea, according to Engle. "Even though the possibility of passing an STI is unlikely with boob sex, it's best to be safe, always!" 6. Don't be afraid to change up positions. One of the great things about strap-ons is that anyone can use them. If you have a penis, you can… Read more Be sensitive to timing Odds are, your bae will be into it. But what if you're not? Rather than immediately shutting your partner down with a blatant N-O, try to keep an open mind and say something along the lines of, "Thanks for asking. Can you tell me more about what you mean?" or "I haven't tried it, but I might be willing to give it a go. What are some of the most comfortable positions for me that you have in mind?"If they wants more intensity, try gently pinching the nipples between your thumb and forefinger. Slowly increase the pressure, and ask them to tell you when it’s too much. Or you can try pulling on the nipples: Cup a breast in your hand and pull on the nipple with your thumb and forefinger, pulling the breast further away from the ribcage. You can also gently twist the nipples—but be careful with this move, as it’s pretty intense. Get your mouth involved

Of course, everyone and anyone is welcome to try out some titty time, but the term boob sex in particular generally refers to a male (penis-bearing person) thrusting his member in between a pair of breasts, which, btw, you're squeezing together. It also feels really good for him—more like a Fleshlight than a hand or vagina, according to Engle. This unique sexual sensation can add even more excitement into the mix. The penis should then slip inside, in Darnell's words, "like a hotdog" and start moving in and out at a comfortable speed. Consider asking your bae if he'd like to do the honors of holding your boobs together, as this could bring him even more pleasure, Darnell says. 5. Layer on the lube. It can also be really freaking hot to watch your partner get off on something new—and your body being an integral part of it.Darnell suggests using those phrases because they show that "you are a competent listener and communicator, and you are also looking for guidance." By gathering more information about what you're dealing with, you'll be better off to set boundaries and make agreements going forward, she adds. While this can be arousing for some women—more on that in a minute—it's considered a nearly universal hit for men. Why? A few reasons: First, most men have a thing for breasts—plain and simple. Second, titty effing is a common act in mainstream porn, Engle says. Third, dudes tend to be visual creatures, and the sight of seeing his penis squeezed between your boobs is **quite** a scene. While the phrase boob sex might not be the first thing you think of when contemplating or talking about your girls, it might be worth bringing to the front of your mind. You don’t need to be in a rush to unclothe your partner’s breasts. Breast play can feel pleasurable even through clothing, and it can also be a nice way to tease them. Rub their breasts over their shirt. To evoke a sense of teenage nostalgia, put your hands up their shirt and play with their breasts over the bra. Once you get their shirt off, touch the parts of the breasts that the bra doesn’t cover, gliding your fingertips along the top edge of the bra. Take your time