I would have to say that I don’t have much patience for newbies who do not understand the protocol of how to communicate respectfully and professionally with a dominatrix. Many times, a Dominant will use small tasks to test a submissive’s willingness and ability to obey. When the Dominant sees how the submissive responds to these tasks, they have a better idea of whether they want to continue the relationship and/or how much training the submissive will require. As a submissive, the why for a rule being in place or why I am being given some, what I think is, a random task is very important to me. I happily comply with small, seemingly insignificant tasks. The Dominant should explain why menial tasks are assigned or why they are required. When the submissive understands the purpose, they will be happier to comply. Having a slave is like having an automatic dishwasher: set it up and make it do the work. It is there to serve your needs. If something is not working right take corrective action until it's fixed.

Myrna gave me a look of absolute disdain as she turned and left me to my sissy task. I felt completely defeated. Honestly I feeling really torn, I enjoy a certain level of humiliation, I enjoy my wife getting off on it more than me. This is more than I was expecting. Once good communication and trust are established, then the couple can explore and play. It is important to note that there is such a thing as a toxic, or bad, Dom. Unfortunately, there are some Doms that do not take the submissive’s needs into account and are in it for what makes them feel good. They don’t understand or respect the limits that the submissive has agreed to. Remove all her facial hair by electrolysis or laser. Again the alternative can be for her to get her lips enhanced. I am sure she will choose the former as anyway she lives as a girl most of the time and this is less obvious to most onlookers.I've been into kink since my early youth, it’s always been something I enjoyed. I found myself at a crossroads in my life and thought perhaps I should try something new, and it changed my life. Latex and leather fetish as well as sub/slave training. I am also really popular in sissification and medical fetish. Over the years, my slaves would complain that they couldn’t figure out how to introduce their girlfriends or wives to female dominance. I co-wrote a book titled How to be a Dominant Diva which focuses on giving couples the inspiration and tools to explore eroticism, role-play and power exchange in a way that is exciting but never intimidating! There is the sink. There is the Woolite. You are to hand wash every single pair of panties and hang them on the hangers over the tub. You will not stop until every last panty is thoroughly washed and hung up to dry. Do I make myself clear?" Rewards don’t need to be things. Tangible items are nice, but non-physical things can be just as wonderful, and they don’t require any money spent. Personally, I prefer these type of rewards, especially when they aren’t expected. They take thought and consideration. When a Dominant takes the time to think of these things, they have learned how the submissive will respond. They really understand her. This is a high degree of intimacy between the couple.

Myrna led the way up the stairs. As I followed behind, I looked up and got a glimpse of my mother-in-law's firm, sexy bottom, encased in shiny white satin tennis panties. There is no typical client. I see couples, women, CEOs, Uber drivers, married guys, virgins. There’s the client who saves up for six months to have a session that means the world to him and the client who just needs a thrill on his lunch break. It runs the gamut.

As we drove along in the frosty darkness of this mid-winter morning, Jill and Tyrone discussed the several tropical islands they would visit. Jill snuggled up close to him, giggling and reminding him how romantic their two weeks together would be. Refer to his male persona as a third one…do you remember when we were together and …. next Friday evening I’ve invited X to enjoy our presence (or you can replace presence with derrieres) after dinner A Popular Mistress, THE GOVERNESS is based in Bournemouth and offers a varied experience in the Arts and Mysteries of Fetish/BDSM. There are many physical types of punishments and those are the ones we typically think of. And while impact play can be a part of your BDSM relationship, the Dominant shouldn’t push the submissive with corporal punishments that push them beyond their limits. Safe words can be used during punishment if they are needed. The Dominant shouldn’t use punishment in moments of anger and they should remain in control. I think my experience in an FLR is pretty tame compared to the other posts but here goes: my wife loves to show all her gym friends how she can do anything she wants and I’ll obey.

Sitting in a corner- Submissive sits in the corner of the room to have quiet reflection on the rule breaking. This should not be for an undetermined amount of time. Dominants should be careful to tow the line between correction and abuse. I have made Todd strip bare naked in front of my gal pals, and twice I’ve paddled him to tears with my sister watching. There is no doubt that my wife ***loves*** to show off in front of her friends. And yes, I am required to attend to her and her guest(s) in my birthday suit. I made it my goal to “break” and feminize my straight muscular professional husband Todd, and I did! Took me over a year but we now have a relationship I control sexually, and he’s SO turned on do8mg everything I ask! When you’re on the receiving end of this type of punishment you may be asked to count the number of strikes. Counting aloud can really drive home the importance of the rule and the consequence for breaking it.This was over 15 years ago, and to cut a long story short we married and even have small children now. She has always kept a stud, but until recently, I have found that I not have encountered them, until now….

The desired outcome is to have a healthy relationship where you both feel safe, happy, and cared for. By following rules that are set by the Dom, the submissive can relax and trust that they are taken care of. When the submissive complies with the rules, the Dominant feels proud that he is able to have been given the gift of submission. The Dominant then feels accepted, desired, and confident like the Master they are. Power Play If rational limits are agreed upon, I think that both delight and humiliation is actually a pleasure. Things they find pleasurable- The Dominant should find out things that submissive would like to try or things that she really likes and give her more of that as a reward Maybe it’s something as easy as allowing her to masturbate while taking a hot bath or as elaborate as a spa day being pampered. Be creative with this one. I want to increase Alice’s humiliation by humiliating her in front of other people: women and sissies. I want other females to see me humiliating Alice. Equally, I want Alice to become good friends with other sissies for my amusement and to do what ever I tell them to each other.

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Whips- This group includes regular whips, riding crops, and floggers. Impact from these types of instruments spread the strike out. Bored eventually with the routine she opened a Women’s only Boutique in 1995 selling lingerie and SM equipment and at the same time took on Domination as a lifestyle. She acquired a personal live in slave who has served her 24/7/365 for the past ten years. My favorite implements are my floggers and my singletail whips. I have the ability to play very light and sensual or heavy and sadistic if the person I am playing with wishes. Most people do not understand impact play, they think it’s about the pain, but that’s not always the case. Lambskin floggers are soft and sensual, and a person getting flogged experiences a sensation similar to a massage. All the while I thought of what was in store for me: two long weeks at the mercy of my bitchy, castrating mother-in-law, who never liked me to begin with, and who had been waiting a long, long time to get me in just such a situation.