HS 'My son likes it because it has balls involved, he tried putting the balls in. The balls don't automatically pop up, it's manual, so a little difficult for a little one to grasp. Overall, a decent toy for a developing toddler.' Study after study has shown that what used to be thought of as rare and deviant sexual behavior has turned out to be pretty typical.

There's a market for each and every one of them and that's fine. Did You Know that Being Kinky is Actually Really Normal? A 'I thought the elephant will shoot the balls out but it doesn’t your child will have to press the round green thing at the top hard and fast enough to eject the ball so it can be difficult and easily loses interest as it requires a lot of effort.'B2029 'Bought this few week ago for my 1 year old nephew. My son has got the same toy too which they both love! Keeps them entertained. Great value for money.' LGBTQ folks get shamed for their preferences. There are cultural and religious communities that have loads of shame around oral acts.

Their kink is not my kink but their kink is okay. Simply live and let live without making judgments. What If I'm Being Shamed?

How Do I Not Kink Shame?

That is the general rule. There are people who are into sex stuff that you may find weird, strange, or even repulsive.

Hazel 'Good toy grandson only ten months he like it only downside have to hit the top hard for balls to pop out' SalmoSalar 'She’s only 12 months and loves the songs and noises it makes. She hasn’t quite worked out how to press the flower to get the balls out yet but loves playing with the hoops. It’s a toy she enjoys with a bit of learning still to come'EM 'I brought this a month ago to put away for Christmas. I’m sure my son will love it, if not I know I will.' AC 'My great nephew who is 18 months old loves this toy. He loves pressing the button and the balls shooting out and the rings.'

Margaret 'Bought this for my 2 year old grandson who loves playing with it with his 4 year old brother' LucyW 'Little one loves the balls shooting out, the little rings are different to what he is used to playing with so keep him entertained. He isnt strong enough to make the balls pop out himself (10months) but loves putting the balls in the nose and the flower part so I can shoot them out.'

Michelle 'My son loves to pop the balls in and watch them fly out, he’s only 11 months so will have plenty of fun with it, he likes to throw it and seems pretty durable so far' For example, I have a phobia of balloons. (It's a little odd but true.) At the same time, I know there are full communities of people who have a balloon fetish. While that sounds like a nightmare to me, I also think it's pretty neat that as humans we have such a range of interactions with simple objects like a balloon.