Does the child seem to seek out rough or wild playing like jumping, climbing, or deep pressure in some way on their body?

Important Instruction before using a lap pad:As a general rule of thumb, weighted lap pads are for children that are growing normally without any significant health concerns at age 3 or older. What size lap pad am I looking for? There are pads that are a little larger, not quite blanket size. Whilst a weighted lap pad may help immensely in situations like those above, it’s also important to respect a child who doesn’t wish to use a lap pad. However well meant, pushing a child to use a lap pad, when they simply don’t want to, is likely to make matters worse. It also doesn’t respect the child’s own individual boundaries. But, some kids that seek out proprioception avoid tactile sensations and there’s no getting around that weight can also stimulate the tactile system.Here’s some advice on how to wash a weighted blanket that may come in handy when washing a lap pad.

Yet, for other kids, using a weighted lap pad at specified times, like circle time or during meals, becomes part of their routine. They will consistently use it or accept it gladly. It’s critical that you never force a child to use one of these pads, if they refuse, accept it. Encouraging is okay, forcing is not. Some children will refuse it initially, but end up loving it over time – that needs to be on their own terms though.No-Sew Weighed Lap Pad with Sequin Fabric– All you need is some duct tape to close this baby up, they show you how in the video! Here are 5 generally accepted weighted lap pad guidelines to keep in mind: 5 weighted lap pad guidelines For children specifically, Alisha, a registered Occupational Therapist at Your Kids Table, recommends:

There are no fixed time frames to use weight. It is important to note that the body and brain adjust to the feeling of weight over time. Do not expect a weighted lap buddy to be useful and effective for long periods. Therefore, it is best used intermittently. Consider using it for 20-minute intervals. How to be safe using weight As a pediatric occupational therapist , I have often recommended weighted sensory tools as a way to provide support during more difficult times of the day.For bedtime/sleeping (for kids that have a hard time getting to sleep or falling asleep, allow them to hold or place it where it feels comfortable. But, not recommended for children under 3 during sleep) Also always keep in mind that a weighted lap pad should never be too heavy for the user to move off their lap themselves.

ALWAYS respect when a child doesn’t want to use a weighted lap pad anymore. And, the weight shouldn’t be so heavy that they can’t remove it from their lap themselves. (See the weight guidelines below). Signs that your child doesn’t like similar tactile sensations could be a child that doesn’t like having blankets on them in the bed, or wearing extra clothes. In this case, even though a child seeks out proprioception (say through jumping and crashing activities), they may not be a good candidate for a weighted lap pad.Another thing to consider is the weighted lap pad fabric. Sensory seekers often love the tactile feel of Minky Dot fleece fabrics, whilst those sensitive to touch, or heat, may prefer a smoother, more breathable, cotton fabric. Furthermore, these sensory tools may help reduce night-time movement, which can help you feel more rested. It is critical that heavier blankets are never used as a restraint, however. By improving sleep quality, you help to reduce daytime stress and irritation. All of these benefits apply to both children and adults. Be sure to read on about important safety for children and adults, alike. Blanket safety Let’s break it down: what is a weighted lap pad, why are kids using them, exactly how do you use one with your child, and different types including some DIY weighted lap pads you can make in no time!