To make the Pure Wand work best for you, you’ll need to get fully aroused, use plenty of lube, and practice. "The more you try, the more likely it is that later, having an internal orgasm alone might work," says DiMartino. "The pure wand, once you’re turned on, is better for internal orgasms because it’s so curvy, so bulbous, so heavy, and so smooth." There are a lot of ways to go about prostate play, and your process will vary depending on your preferences and goals. Because so many different methods exist, it's impossible to create a single, in-depth guide on how to go about each session—you'll need to find a way that works for you, your toy, and your time. Here are some things to get you started. Ease of Use: 3.5 / 5 | Durability: 3.5 / 5 | Fun Factor: 4 / 5 | Features: 4.5 / 5 | Value: 4 / 5 | Overall Rating: 3.9 / 5 On orgasm misconception and dildo method: Thread: Opening Pandora's Box....Or How I Couldn't Stop Coming Ease of Use: 4.5 / 5 | Durability: 4 / 5 | Fun Factor: 4 / 5 | Features: 3.5 / 5 | Value: 4 / 5 | Overall Rating: 4 / 5

Pros: Very powerful vibrations; eight vibration speeds; double-weighted head for extra rumbliness; luxurious metal construction; LED-lighted buttons for easier use in the dark If you're new and looking for tips, do not skip reading their Getting Starting wiki. Advanced users may find value in their Advanced Skills section. The stainless steel: Most sex toys are made of silicone, which is wonderful, hygienic, and often feels good. The Pure Wand is different because it’s made from a solid metal, meaning it's a great conductor of hot and cold. That makes it the perfect toy for temperature play—a kind of sex that’s all about heating things up or cooling them down. How to Use: Hold down the middle button to turn the toy on or off. Use the other two buttons to control the toy’s intensity level. Apply water-based lube to the nozzle of the toy before putting it on your clitoris.Ease of Use: 3 / 5 | Durability: 4.5 / 5 | Fun Factor: 4.5 / 5 | Features: 3.5 / 5 | Value: 3.5 / 5 | Overall Rating: 3.8 / 5

While nothing can be more subjective than an opinion on a sex toy, the efficacy of this legendary device designed to make it rain orgasms has actually been proven by science. A 2008 study found that over 93 percent of a group of 500 chronic anorgasmic women—meaning women with a persistent inability to climax—could reach orgasm using the Magic Wand. That finding, plus the consensus view of very happy magic wand owners I’ve spoken with over the years is what led me to invest in my very own Hitachi magic wand in 2012. Even if squirting isn’t your goal, the Pure Wand is still an awesome toy to add to your collection. It has two differently sized ends, one pretty small (less than an inch) and one larger (about one and a half inches), which makes it a good toy for both people who haven’t played with penetration much and for those who like penetration a lot. "If you’re looking to explore penetration again, the small side is very small, and it can create the same stretching effect as with dilators," explains DiMartino. You can work your way up from the smaller side to the larger side.How to Use: Follow the included instructions to set up the toy (they’re too complex to summarize here!). Control the toy with its corded remote control or by connecting it to the Cowgirl app. Pros: Stimulates penis, perineum and balls all at once; can also stimulate your partner during penetrative sex; increases erection strength and sensitivity; four motors for intense vibrations; 16 vibration intensities and eight patterns; can be controlled via the MysteryVibe app The G-spot evokes confusion for a lot of people. Does it exist? How do you get to it? The Njoy Pure Wand is a beautiful, no-nonsense toy that will help you find and stimulate your G-spot with ease, and have some jaw-dropping orgasms to boot. The Specs

On using a vibrating massager (warning: somewhat unrealistic expectations of ease of orgasm): Thread: Beginner's Guide to Prostate PlayWomen wanting to explore their G-spot. This is a fantastic product for women who have never been able to find their G-spots before. I can’t overstate its simplicity. Since it weighs so much and you’re doing all the work, using the Wand can get tiring. Using the smaller end internally is especially difficult, as the Wand is weighted more in favor of inserting the large end. You can remedy this by taking little breaks to focus on clitoral stimulation. Or just power through it and think about how toned your arms are going to get...

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We hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the G-spot? Yeah, that doesn't exist. Sorry!! Ofc, internal stimulation is still very much a thing, and when done well, folks with vulvas may even experience squirting (aka female ejaculation). How can you achieve a sheet-soaking orgasm, you ask? You can get there with penetrative sex, oral sex, or by using fingers—and there are even sex toys for squirting that can help get ya over the finish line. And while there isn't a one-size-fits-all squirt sex toy that'll work for everyone, we've got plenty of suggestions that have reviewers gushing (heh).