You aren’t going to launch into a handjob here (I mean, if you want to I’m not going to stop you...and I bet he won’t either), but the point is to let him enjoy the massage and have a teeny bit of frustration with your teasing, too. #7. The Long Exploration

In between massaging and squeezing, trace your areola without touching your nipples. This will help build up anticipation. My husband could tell I was in rough shape and he offered me a small menu of choices for the evening.Ramp up the pleasure by pinching your nipples. A pinch will send a rush of sensation throughout your body. The harder the pinch, the better — but play around with pressure to find out what feels best to you. It excited the hell out of me to see him running his hands all over her body, including her gorgeous ass! Then he asked her to turn over and she did! There she was, with her naked tits and pussy fully exposed to his eyes, and hands. He seemed able to get his hands on nearly every bit of her body's surface. Remember, the goal of lingam massage is to take it slow and experience all the pleasurable sensations. Work your way up

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Some techniques will lead to an obvious sexual arousal response, but the goal of this touching isn’t to end up having sex...at least not necessarily! 🙂 Before the massage, make sure to take time to set your intentions and create an open mindset. Doing this can help establish the emotional mood of the massage and allow you to enjoy the experience as something both spiritual and sexual. Fun fact: Do you know what causes goose bumps? Goose bumps are an involuntary reaction to things like cold, as well as strong emotions, like arousal. No matter what type of oil you choose, something natural and hypoallergenic is best, especially for sensitive skin. Popular natural oils to use include: Just one time I thought there could have been “something” was the way her hands wandered on my chest in a non massage way for a brief moment.