Spanking Love". Complete Index to World Film. Archived from the original on 15 September 2012 . Retrieved 2010-05-07. Very helpful for overactive thinkers, like me. I also enjoy admiring my stripes and bruises the next day, if I’ve been spanked very hard (perhaps with a hairbrush or a paddle).

I hope everybody had a wonderful Thanksgiving. I am thankful for all my loyal members, clients, and spanking friends. Did you watch the “A Not So Happy Spanksgiving” video in my members section during the holiday? Sarah and Paul and I had so much fun filming this scene and Sarah played the spoiled brat as usual and got a good spanking from and me. I don’t know…I’m just scared. Is it going to hurt?” Jill asked, her hands flat on the floor. She could feel a slight breeze on the underside of her cheeks where her underwear didn’t quite cover. Sure! Um, lemme get some coffee first. Want some?” She asked heading off to the kitchen to put a pod in the keurig.A 2019 study looked at how Canadian university students thought about BDSM practices, with 60% of male participants and 31% of female participants having positive thoughts about whipping or spanking. Where can a person learn more about spanking therapy? Give a choice. Let the child choose between two or three options that you are okay with. For example, if your child is resisting getting dressed, say "You can put on your shirt first or your pants first." Science seems to offer some answers. Biologically, when a person enjoys a sexual act, their brain releases dopamine, the neurotransmitter that heats up the brain's reward and pleasure centers. So, if someone enjoys being spanked or doing the spanking, the dopamine release signals to the brain to continue. But as to why people specifically like spanking, the act of being hit on the ass by a hand or foreign object, which some people view solely as painful, the reasoning is more complex—and somewhat untraceable.

I wept openly at the loss. Lucille was my rudder, my anchor—my disciplinarian, yes, but also my wife, guardian and lover. Although all of our friends knew Lucille was in charge, no one ever knew the details of the agreement and relationship we shared, at least not in full. I found I was lost without her. My performance at the office suffered significantly, and in my depressed state I ignored the solicitations of our friends, finding little remaining joy in life. I was not pleased by this interruption, nor Vera’s imperious attitude, but I suppose since Lucille left Vera her business, it was only reasonable she would have to spend time with the documents and records in Lucille’s study, at least until she was able to transfer the whole lot to her own apartment.Classical conditioning is a type of behaviourism that falls within this area, and acts an automatic response to prior learning – i.e. the spanking can be linked to something you’ve experienced in the past. According to an article in The Journal of Sex Research, people may engage in spanking therapy for a range of reasons, such as : Yes. Yes, I do,” I blurted after only a short pause, sensing a slight twitch in the paddle resting on my hypersensitive behind. You cannot climb them perfectly fine. You told me you fell off. And even if you hadn’t, it was still an incredibly dangerous and petulant thing to do” Natalie replied, beginning a new onslaught of spanks to Jill’s upper thighs. The resulting wail was impressive, definitely alerting Emery down the hall if she hadn’t already heard. Do you recognize this?” Vera demanded, thrusting a photocopy of the confession and spanking contract I wrote at Lucille’s direction eight years ago.

I’ve never felt that Vera welcomed me into their family, or approved of me as a suitable husband for Lucille, despite our nearly 30 years of successful marriage. While Lucille had been a large, full-figured woman, Vera was shorter and almost slight of frame. Never married, she always wore a pinched look, at least whenever she was in my presence. Kay” she said quietly, wrapping one hand around Natalie’s ankle. Natalie nodded and resumed spanking. After maybe 30 seconds, she decided it was time for the underwear to come down. She slipped her fingers into the waistband on either side and slid them over Jill’s cheeks and down her legs. Jill said nothing, but groaned in embarrassment. She had seen Emery get spanked, and figured she’d end up getting it on the bare bottom too. She just didn’t want to think about exactly what Natalie could see of her upturned, exposed butt. The bottom line with our sexualities is that we should be getting comfortable with them and with them changing throughout our lives, but that we should never be feeling coerced or compelled for what we're doing or not. I’m sorry I didn’t get a diary written for last week but I was quite busy preparing for Thanksgiving plus I had out of town company for the week. I’m going to Dallas Nov 12 – 19 for a personal visit plus do a few sessions with some of my regular Texas boys.Begin the spanking. Strike the child's bottom gently, never hit hard. It doesn't take a lot of force to successfully discipline your child, and hitting too hard can cause injury or trauma. Plus, the symbolism of the act is just as important as the actual pain inflicted. Not hitting too hard is even more important with a spanking on the bare bottom and/or younger children. I mean, we’ve been on six dates in the last two weeks. I think we’ve established fairly well that we want to be more than just friends, plus the amount of times we’ve ended up in bed together during those six dates would certainly corroborate that…” Natalie said laughing before taking a deep gulp of her whiskey sour. Cora smiled and rolled her eyes. Labrecque, F., et al. (2020). What is so appealing about being spanked, flogged, dominated, or restrained? Answers from practitioners of sexual masochism/submission. Switch: A switch is someone who can literally switch and enjoy both the dominant and submissive role. What is impact play?

NOTE FROM THE ORIGINAL: My favorite stories are about the beginnings of spanking relationships. This piece is an unauthorized sequel to a special favorite of this type that appeared in the fiction section of the Disciplinary Wives Club titled, “Guess Who Runs This Household” by Ralph. My sincere compliments to that author, and I hope he does not mind that I have written this sequel.

Here are 6 reasons why men like to spank women: 

It usually occurs around a particular traumatic episode, which is then stamped into the child’s psyche,’ Dr Spelman explains. Making up. Have the child make amends if they wronged someone. For example, if your son said something mean to his sister, ask him how he could make it up to her by doing something nice for her. Offer suggestions if your child is struggling to think of something (e.g. "you could make her a card").