When I am en femme I go to malls and parts of the city where it is less likely I will encounter someone that my wife or I know. I was so happy when I found this because sometimes I feel like I’m alone in this, and it’s almost like I’ve written it myself with how similarly I feel about everything. You each state what is and is not acceptable to you and if you can’t agree, then you either find professional help to find common ground and negotiate an updated agreement or you deal with the fallout and potential collapse of the marriage. If my son wants to wear a tutu and play with dolls, then he will damn well wear a tutu and play with dolls.

Often, those of us who identify with the LGBTQ+ list are the first group to champion the idea that you cannot change who or what you are attracted to, that you inherently know who makes your heart flutter and is capable of breaking it. My feminine husband told me that I had a chance to leave her or she would have me completely dressing like a trophy wife at all times. But we’re necessarily not off to see the Wizard (well not all of us), plunging into the trackless wilderness to see what we can find, nor on a pilgrimage that inevitably leads to a cross dressing or transgender Mecca. You could be in for a lot of fun, but be prepared he might get a bit defensive about his masculinity, it’s tough being a man! I was mostly alone at our house and again, the urge to dress up started to grow stronger and stronger.

It’s possible in a week, in a month, in ten years he may disclose that he also wants to wear, or already does, dresses or makeup. With hormones, I’m not there right now and I probably never will be because I don’t believe I could achieve what I really want — better to figure a way to live as I am and embrace my inner feelings. Is the love for crossdressing worth losing family members, friends, love partner, respect, gossip and public humiliation/embarrassment?

Breathing heavily, I thought… I stripped off my clothes and stepped into the panties, the delicious feel of the silk rising past my knees then over my manhood, the elastic clasping at my midriff. Every person in your life is at a different point in their lives and our journeys are all different from each other. She then came to my side and lifted her gown over my head, then proceeded to put it in the proper way on me. If you can muster that, you have a better chance then many to build an amazing marriage where your wife is supportive because you own your part, are supportive of her and listen to, respect and strive for copious amounts of empathy toward her feelings. I couldn’t stop thinking about dressing up in cute dresses and every time I saw any girl in a lovely dress, I couldn’t stop fantasizing about how I would look in them.

Myself included sometimes, but luckily I’m married to someone who is always asking if I’m okay and making sure I know I can tell him what’s on my mind. haha He refused to hog part of my half, which I thought was sweet… and a little silly, since I didn’t need it all.

She was supposed to arrive after 2 days but she told me she was on her way home and would arrive in few hours. Obviously I don’t know exactly what he is looking at online, but it might not necessarily for sexual stimulation. First, I heard from a man who occasionally wants to cross-dress and be submissive to a dominant partner.A huge part of their partner’s life has been kept secret from them for years, and it forces you to re-evaluate everything. My parents were quite strict so I was extra careful every time I got dressed in my sister’s clothes. For men, the fantasy combines the roles of a dominant woman or man who holds power over the “naughty boy. Most people are rather nice and will adjust their perspectives and come around to a place of acceptance and support.