EasyGlide Anal Relaxing Lubricant – Anal Water Based Lubricant – Compatible with Latex and Silicone - 150ml

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There aren't many hard and fast rules in the bedroom, but when it comes to anal sex, there is at least one: Using lube is an absolute must. Whenever we talk about anal sex, questions about poop inevitably pop up, so it can be helpful to know going in what you can expect. So first, let’s walk through what actually happens inside your body when you poop. Food starts in your stomach, where it gets broken down. Then it passes through your small intestine, where it gets digested even more. The remaining food waste—that’s poop—gets stored in your large intestine, which is a long tube also known as the colon, according to the National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases.

Unfortunately, there’s a bit of a catch here, which is important for expectation-setting. When you poop, your body should expel all the stool in your rectum, but some fecal matter might get left behind. While you probably don’t have to worry about pooping on your partner, you should know that they may be exposed to some visible or invisible fecal matter, Dr. Chinn says. Try relaxation exercises: Take some time to relax your mind and body. You can practice deep breathing, meditation, or even take a warm bath or shower to help you unwind and reduce tension. But there’s one caveat with silicone-based lubes that’s important to keep in mind: They can degrade the material of silicone sex toys, meaning it’s not the best option if you’re planning to use toys. And, if you’re using a condom, you should stay away from oil-based lubes, as they can break down the latex.

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That said, Wright cautions against using a product with ingredients that you wouldn't put in your vagina. "If you’re using enough of it, the chances of a little bit of it getting in or around the vulva or vaginal opening are pretty high, so it’s important that you’re using something that is okay if some creeps over into that area," she explains. When in doubt, the fewer ingredients, the better, Wright adds.

When it comes to safe anal sex, using the best anal lubes for your needs is critical. “[Lube] reduces friction to lower the risk of condom breakage. It can also help to prevent small tears that can be painful and increase the risk of infection,” says Jess O’Reilly, Ph.D., sexologist and host of the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. “And lube can enhance sensation and pleasure!”

Why should you use anal lube?

Use plenty of lubrication: The anus does not naturally lubricate like the mouth or vagina. Therefore, a high-quality, lubricant is essential to reduce friction and discomfort. Don’t be affraid to apply generous lube in and around the anus for smoother entry. You can even inject lube with a lube shooter.

I don’t recommend it for people with allergies or sensitive skin because it can lead to potential skin infections, trapped bacteria, and breakouts. Relax your sphincter muscles: The key to comfortable anal penetration is to relax the anal sphincter. You can do this by taking deep breaths, exhaling slowly, and consciously relaxing your pelvic floor muscles, like you are having a bowel movement to help the muscles open up.Consult a Healthcare Professional: If you’re unsure about using a product or if you experience persistent pain or discomfort, consult with a healthcare professional for guidance and advice.

FYI, i f a lube advertises itself as “numbing,” then you want to stay far away. Lube that makes butt stuff less painful sounds too good to be true...because it is. “Never, ever using a lubricant that numbs the anal sphincter,” Organic Loven founder Taylor Sparks previously told Cosmo . “This is the one place that you want to know what is painful so that you can stop whatever action you are taking, and not wait for the numbing lubricant/cream to wear off and realize there has been damage.” Numbing lubes with analgesics or desensitizing agents in them (like benzocaine) won’t let you know you’re overdoing it until after the fact, when the lube wears off, which is not ideal. Using spit to lubricate the butt during sex is impractical, ineffective, and prone to STIs. (Bad, bad, bad!) Test for Allergies: Before applying any product to sensitive areas, test it on a less sensitive part of your body (like the inside of your forearm) to ensure you don’t have an allergic reaction.This oil-based lube is made with coconut oil and organic silicone, so it will last a ridiculously long time without reapplication. Because it's oil-based, it's not suitable for use with latex or polyisoprene condoms, but you can use it with your silicone-based toys, which is a major win. Also important: There's also a water-based spin-off formula if you dig the idea but want something usable with latex condoms.